And to add to what Odedee said
and to what I have already said. You are unable to separate your own personal view of Judaism from that of other people. I'm sorry to have to tell you that, but I take particular offence to your statements about non-Jewish partners. I have lived with a non-Jewish partner for many years (and still do) and even the suggestion that this is an inferior arrangement or that I would be better off with someone Jewish is very offensive to me. I see it as racist. I have deliberately chosen not to have children - a decision that has nothing to do with the identity of my partner (who, like me, is also not religious). If we did have children, like Odedee, I would bring them up to be human beings. And if you really want to know (although I suspect, this particular piece of information will upset you greatly) I would not choose to have a child of mine circumcised. Why are you so convinced that what is good for you is good for me or for anyone else? You lived with one Christian woman out of millions and you draw conclusions about every single Christian (or whatever - shall we say non-Jewish instead?) based on that. That's plain prejudice. My partner is the most wonderful human being I have ever been lucky to meet. I choose partners because of love and a meeting of souls - the rest is immaterial.