Please help...?

[SillyMe7]

Please help...?

Hello (first of all, im sorry about writing in English, i live in Europe, and dont have hebrew yet) If somone can help me with this dream, it will be really great, as it is really bothering me... As of lately i dream a lot about haveing babies and being pregnant...but this one dream, i am pregnant in it, and im really worried about it, think that it will change my life completely, and how will it affect me, i talk to my mother (who im not too close with...so its wierd that im talking to her like this) about it and she says "yes it will change your life comletely", but at this point, im too pregnant to change my mind anyway...so i have to have this baby. i remember thinking that it will be hard and wierd for me to have a baby on my own (there is no father to this baby anywhere, i have no idea how i got pregnant and this issue doesnt concern me in the dream). When i finally have the baby, at first its kinda nice (but still wierd!) and the baby smiles at me and laughs, it seems i get along with him (her? its not clear) but later i suddenly notice it looks wierd, he starts looking like a bug or something, his hands, his head, it looks more like a roach or something (!) and i am really scared of roaches in real life, but i try to hold him anyway, thinking and hoping he will change to a nice baby soon, that its just a temporary thing.... Thats about all i remember....can someone offer a solution? all i can think about is this dream...

 

[pepill]

i'll try

First of all 22 is an early age for bringing babies into the world in my opinion and i think u kinda feel the same way so i dont think we are talking about a baby baby.. I dont know how long you are in Europe, if you are away from home for the first time and how that affects u but i know that a person about your age gets a new responsibility on his/her life Taking care of yourself is kinda like u take care of the baby. You r worried that it will change the way u used to live your life and how will it affect u I think you made it clear to yourself in the dream that the new situation that is getting born in your life will change the way u used to live. The second part is when the baby gets born . it looks like you are doing a pretty good job you're getting along with it, it smiles and laughs. The roach represent your fears as you said you are really scared of roacher in real life but in the dream you dont abandon your baby u hold on to him waiting for him to change to a nice baby again I can see you are smart and brave and handling the new situation quite well I hope im on the right track.. if not at least i tried

 

[SillyMe7]

Thanks.....

Hmm....i can i relate to some of what you're saying....but it doesnt make the dream 'feel' clear to me and still bothering me......? By the way, i am writing from my friend's computer, and im 26, not 23 .... i changed it

 

[pepill]

hmm..

if u told me what do u relate to and what dont u it would be easier for me so maybe it is a baby and your wishes and fears comes out in the dream ... it would have helped if i knew what still bothering and whats not clear i know that when my dreams are strong and i rememeber them and feel strange.. usually i undestand after a while. its like sometimes the dream is a head fixer sometimes its kind of a guide, you get experience through a dream and when the time comes in reality u know what to do even if its unconsciously anyways... im sure reshef will help u more

 

[SillyMe7]

Thanks so much *waiting for Reshef*

Pepill, thank you so much for your advice...and by the way, i can read hebrew (just not write it), so maybe that's easier...

 

[רשף כשף]

היי

חלומות על הריונות והולדת תינוקות מרמזים על לבלוב ושגשוג, העלאת רעיונות חדשים ונקיטת גישות חדשות ומרעננות בחייך. הדאגה בחלום לגבי עתידך שלך ושל התינוק העתיד לבוא היא החשש שמא הפרוייקט החדש או הרעיון החדש שעלה במוחך יצא לפועל והאם כדאי לך בכלל לנסות... הדיבור עם אימך שאינו שכיח מחוץ לחלום בעצם דוחף אותך להתייעץ עם גורמים מוסמכים בנוגע לרעיון החדש (לא ברור לי באיזה תחום), ותופתעי לטובה, יוכלו לעזור לך אם זה לפתוח עסק, להתחיל ללמוד, או כל דבר חדש שקורה בחייך כרגע. את נמצאת בנקודה מאוד קריטית, נקודה של החלטות וצריכה להחליט בקרוב מאוד לגבי עתידך. ברור לך שלכאן ולכאן תהיינה השלכות ובכל מקרה הדברים לא יישארו כפי שהם היום. החליטי תוך שיקול דעת, התייעצי עם גורמים מוסמכים, בידקי את האותיות הקטנות בחוזה, אל תחיי באשליות שהכל יסתדר לבד, וודאי שהדברים אכן יסתדרו על הצד הטוב ביותר.

 

[pepill]

hehe

איזה יופה

 

[SillyMe7]

../images/Emo140.gif Thank you both so much!