hi everyone...
i've been here before and coming back again cause i'm really not sure what to do with my boyfriend. sorry for the english i'm not in israel right now. so i been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now.. we had some problems in the past that broke the trust that i had in him. found out he was lying about some things, didnt keep some promises he made to me but i decided that i can forgive and forget if he can show me a change. and he did for a while but now i feel like hes repeating himself. he is a good man and a very nice and careing person and i do really love him and inlove with him but sometimes he seems to forget about me and my feelings.. i feel like hes never talking to me about whats going on in his life and i keep leaning things in different ways.. if its on facebook or if its pix that i find on his computer. l tried talking to him asking him to be more open with me and not make me feel like hes doing things behind my back.. and all he had to say is that i need to stop searching for things to fight about. now i have to say i use to look on his computer and facebook before to see if his hiding anything when i first found out he was lying to me.. but now its not even searching.. having girls that i never heard of before writing him all kinds of things on facebook... i wasnt trying to look for it but its there.. and instead of making sure it wont be there and put the girls in their place he says again i need to stop searching. i really dont know how to get to him and make him understand that i'm not blaming him of doing anything wrong by talking to other girls i only want him to be open and honest with me can anyone pls help me find a way to get to him cause i'm really hurt right now and i dont wanna give up on us. one more thing.. he always says that when we are married we will have the same email same facebook so that means i will know everything thats going on. so why is it different if i see it now? how is it bad? cause we not married yet? how will we ever get there if i still dont feel like i can completely trust him? hope anyone can help me with this. thanks
i've been here before and coming back again cause i'm really not sure what to do with my boyfriend. sorry for the english i'm not in israel right now. so i been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now.. we had some problems in the past that broke the trust that i had in him. found out he was lying about some things, didnt keep some promises he made to me but i decided that i can forgive and forget if he can show me a change. and he did for a while but now i feel like hes repeating himself. he is a good man and a very nice and careing person and i do really love him and inlove with him but sometimes he seems to forget about me and my feelings.. i feel like hes never talking to me about whats going on in his life and i keep leaning things in different ways.. if its on facebook or if its pix that i find on his computer. l tried talking to him asking him to be more open with me and not make me feel like hes doing things behind my back.. and all he had to say is that i need to stop searching for things to fight about. now i have to say i use to look on his computer and facebook before to see if his hiding anything when i first found out he was lying to me.. but now its not even searching.. having girls that i never heard of before writing him all kinds of things on facebook... i wasnt trying to look for it but its there.. and instead of making sure it wont be there and put the girls in their place he says again i need to stop searching. i really dont know how to get to him and make him understand that i'm not blaming him of doing anything wrong by talking to other girls i only want him to be open and honest with me can anyone pls help me find a way to get to him cause i'm really hurt right now and i dont wanna give up on us. one more thing.. he always says that when we are married we will have the same email same facebook so that means i will know everything thats going on. so why is it different if i see it now? how is it bad? cause we not married yet? how will we ever get there if i still dont feel like i can completely trust him? hope anyone can help me with this. thanks