nekochan88
New member
Dear Friends!
Thank you all for your responses and attention - I was very delighted to get all your answers, and they really helped to clear my mind! Some new happenings! D's daughter Bat Mitzvah was last weekend - a major event which I had refused to attend (see my previous postings - over indulgence of ex-wife, mother family - I just wanted to keep myself away from this headache...). Nevertheless, I had sent a present by mail, and D called me to say how much his daughter was pleased with the present. He had also mentioned that he knows that I am going to give a public lecture (he saw it on a publication, it did not come from myself) and that he wishes to come. Today he had called me to ask for the details - and I gave him the address, time etc. But - he did not offer to pick me up, or come eith me, or be personal. I really do not know how to react to this kind of attitude - are we going on a new type of relationship - a lecturer and audience?............what should I say to him ? I did not see him for 2 month, and I know it is going to be tough for me. And what shall I do if he is going to com with a new girl-friend who is judt interested in the topic? I really hope he is not going to be that nusty - though he had made me confront totally insensitive situations in the past. And there is also a possibility that another friend can come - shall I encourage him to do so - or shall i keep open ends with D so that we possibly meet and talk after the lecture? Please let me know what do you think... The lecture is on Sunday - and I would appreciate your reactions ovet the weekend! Have a greate week-end, and enjoy yourself! ai
Thank you all for your responses and attention - I was very delighted to get all your answers, and they really helped to clear my mind! Some new happenings! D's daughter Bat Mitzvah was last weekend - a major event which I had refused to attend (see my previous postings - over indulgence of ex-wife, mother family - I just wanted to keep myself away from this headache...). Nevertheless, I had sent a present by mail, and D called me to say how much his daughter was pleased with the present. He had also mentioned that he knows that I am going to give a public lecture (he saw it on a publication, it did not come from myself) and that he wishes to come. Today he had called me to ask for the details - and I gave him the address, time etc. But - he did not offer to pick me up, or come eith me, or be personal. I really do not know how to react to this kind of attitude - are we going on a new type of relationship - a lecturer and audience?............what should I say to him ? I did not see him for 2 month, and I know it is going to be tough for me. And what shall I do if he is going to com with a new girl-friend who is judt interested in the topic? I really hope he is not going to be that nusty - though he had made me confront totally insensitive situations in the past. And there is also a possibility that another friend can come - shall I encourage him to do so - or shall i keep open ends with D so that we possibly meet and talk after the lecture? Please let me know what do you think... The lecture is on Sunday - and I would appreciate your reactions ovet the weekend! Have a greate week-end, and enjoy yourself! ai
