מיכל כותבת:
(מיכל, חברה חדשה בפורום, בקשה ממני להכניס את ההודעה הזו עבורה משום שכרגע היא לא מצליחה לכתוב בפורום הודעות): Hello, I read a lot in your forum and I enjoy your answers and your education attitudes. Unfortunately I can´t write in Hebrew but I hope that you´ll read it anyway. I have two problems (or one that presents it self in two ways). My daughter is one year old. She was born with a very strong opinion and her development was/is very fast (even too fast for her age...). The problems: 1. I almost don´t say "NO" to Noam but it is impossible to get her to compromise. She wants something and that is it! Example: I go with her to a play station. There are many games and a kitchen for adults (coffee, thee etc.) Noam wants to play in the kitchen. She can get there because she climbs on everything or brings a chair. The people there don’t allow children to play there + it´s dangerous. I try to talk to her, to bring other games, to distract... Nothing helps- I take her a way and she throws her self on the floor and screams. (This is just an example so don´t tell me not to take her there anymore). 2. Noam thinks that she can do everything and if it doesn´t work she throws the thing, throws her self and cry. Example: She puts colored shapes in place, sometimes it is hard for her (shapes of a star or "meshushe") If it doesn’t work the first time she pushes the game a way and cries. I don´t push her to do difficult things but this is the things that she chooses to do. She finds simpler games boring. I remind you that she is just one year old and she almost doesn´t talk (she hears three languages at home so probably it´ll take time until she´ll start talking.). She understands, however, almost everything. Any advice will be great. Thank you.
(מיכל, חברה חדשה בפורום, בקשה ממני להכניס את ההודעה הזו עבורה משום שכרגע היא לא מצליחה לכתוב בפורום הודעות): Hello, I read a lot in your forum and I enjoy your answers and your education attitudes. Unfortunately I can´t write in Hebrew but I hope that you´ll read it anyway. I have two problems (or one that presents it self in two ways). My daughter is one year old. She was born with a very strong opinion and her development was/is very fast (even too fast for her age...). The problems: 1. I almost don´t say "NO" to Noam but it is impossible to get her to compromise. She wants something and that is it! Example: I go with her to a play station. There are many games and a kitchen for adults (coffee, thee etc.) Noam wants to play in the kitchen. She can get there because she climbs on everything or brings a chair. The people there don’t allow children to play there + it´s dangerous. I try to talk to her, to bring other games, to distract... Nothing helps- I take her a way and she throws her self on the floor and screams. (This is just an example so don´t tell me not to take her there anymore). 2. Noam thinks that she can do everything and if it doesn´t work she throws the thing, throws her self and cry. Example: She puts colored shapes in place, sometimes it is hard for her (shapes of a star or "meshushe") If it doesn’t work the first time she pushes the game a way and cries. I don´t push her to do difficult things but this is the things that she chooses to do. She finds simpler games boring. I remind you that she is just one year old and she almost doesn´t talk (she hears three languages at home so probably it´ll take time until she´ll start talking.). She understands, however, almost everything. Any advice will be great. Thank you.
