הרב זאב מנסבך מצוהר- חשוב לקרוא!!!
אני לא כותבת כאן כ"כ בגלל חוסר זמן אני מתחתנת ב- 11/9. בהתחלה התכווננו להתחתן דרך הרבנות עם רב מצוהר בשם- זאב מנסבך. בסופו של עניין החלטנו לערוך חופה רפורמית. איזה מזל- תשקיעו ותקראו מה קרה בחתונה של זוג שהתחתן עם כבוד הרב זאב מנדסבך. פורסם בפורום מתחתנים אין לך מקום בתא הדואר, אז הנה כל הסיפור (באנגלית כי כבר כתבתי אותו לפני שמן מה באנגלית... אני אשמח לתרגם לעברית אם זו בעיה) We got married in Kfar-Saba, were you must have a 'rav mechaen', which means he has to be a rav of a city/village or so. Tsoar connected us with Rabi Zehev Mentsbach, from moshav Shaphir - somewhere between kiriat-gat and hevron He met with us two months before the wedding for a couple of hours, explained all the ceremony and what he can or cant do. We agreed on the phone before the wedding about how the hupa will be and at what hour. When he came, we tolled out parents to show him the witnesses, and went to the family room waiting for the DJ to call us to the hupa. But during this time, the rabi did not agree to make the hupa with the witnesses we had, because he wanted only religious witnesses. He claimed he had tolled us about this, but we both do not remember such a thing. Anyway, we had some religious people there, so out parents called them to be out witnesses. This time the rabi said we were trying too trick him, and that we are now lying and the witnesses we bring him are not religious!!! And they really were!!! The rabi said we are telling not religious people to wear a kipa and claim they are religious! I also must say that our religiour guests were very offended by this. He did not want to make the hupa, so he just took his stuff and went to the car!!! Our parents, the DJ, the 'menahel erua', they all ran after him, and for an hour stood near his car to convince him to come back!!! During this time, the religious people that were there called the main rabi of Even-Yehuda, and the main rabi of Kfar-Saba (at home), asking if the whitnesses have to be religious, and they both said that this is no problem, and they do not have to be religious... Our marriage is actually made in Kfar-Saba, but the rabi did not care!!! Finally, with a delay of 1.5 hour, he came back and made the hupa. This was after a lot of 'atsabim' and my wife's father needing medical help from the 'menael erua'. That's the story... לתשומת לבכם
אני לא כותבת כאן כ"כ בגלל חוסר זמן אני מתחתנת ב- 11/9. בהתחלה התכווננו להתחתן דרך הרבנות עם רב מצוהר בשם- זאב מנסבך. בסופו של עניין החלטנו לערוך חופה רפורמית. איזה מזל- תשקיעו ותקראו מה קרה בחתונה של זוג שהתחתן עם כבוד הרב זאב מנדסבך. פורסם בפורום מתחתנים אין לך מקום בתא הדואר, אז הנה כל הסיפור (באנגלית כי כבר כתבתי אותו לפני שמן מה באנגלית... אני אשמח לתרגם לעברית אם זו בעיה) We got married in Kfar-Saba, were you must have a 'rav mechaen', which means he has to be a rav of a city/village or so. Tsoar connected us with Rabi Zehev Mentsbach, from moshav Shaphir - somewhere between kiriat-gat and hevron He met with us two months before the wedding for a couple of hours, explained all the ceremony and what he can or cant do. We agreed on the phone before the wedding about how the hupa will be and at what hour. When he came, we tolled out parents to show him the witnesses, and went to the family room waiting for the DJ to call us to the hupa. But during this time, the rabi did not agree to make the hupa with the witnesses we had, because he wanted only religious witnesses. He claimed he had tolled us about this, but we both do not remember such a thing. Anyway, we had some religious people there, so out parents called them to be out witnesses. This time the rabi said we were trying too trick him, and that we are now lying and the witnesses we bring him are not religious!!! And they really were!!! The rabi said we are telling not religious people to wear a kipa and claim they are religious! I also must say that our religiour guests were very offended by this. He did not want to make the hupa, so he just took his stuff and went to the car!!! Our parents, the DJ, the 'menahel erua', they all ran after him, and for an hour stood near his car to convince him to come back!!! During this time, the religious people that were there called the main rabi of Even-Yehuda, and the main rabi of Kfar-Saba (at home), asking if the whitnesses have to be religious, and they both said that this is no problem, and they do not have to be religious... Our marriage is actually made in Kfar-Saba, but the rabi did not care!!! Finally, with a delay of 1.5 hour, he came back and made the hupa. This was after a lot of 'atsabim' and my wife's father needing medical help from the 'menael erua'. That's the story... לתשומת לבכם
