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[Lizusha]

trying to write here

Well, i wanted to ask you ppl weither i was right about a fight i had with my bf, but after writing in hebrew half a page, and deleting it. i decided that it want meant to be, so regarding letters and stuff, i wrote 5 letters this morning to my friends back home, and it defenatly made me much much happier then i was before that. Although i know it'll take a while till they get them, i am still happy to see a responce once in a while, even if it takes 2-3 months for them to answer (army and all)Anyways... My best friend of 7 years havent written me anything although i wrote him like 4 letters, and half of them contained not nice words regarding him not writing me, i know he's in the army and everything, and comes home once in 3 weeks, but 20 mins to write a letter , he could've find. but i still love him to death, and worry about him every day.

 

[SupermanZW]

It's a difficult question

For how long have you not been together? Unfortunately, far from sight is far from the heart, especially in the long run. Despite the above, I think you were right in your fight, because you tried your best to keep in touch with him and he appearantly didn't, but he could also have a reason, maybe it's very hard for him to keep in touch with you knowing that the chance you'll return to be together at the same place is very low and because he misses you a lot while knowing that he may never have a chance to see you again made him make a decision not to keep in touch with you because it makes him feel bad and also makes it hard for him to find love that would end his misery which is not your fault despite your good means, i think you should ask him that. He wasn't right in his avoidance from writing back to you, but I think he didn't avoid that because he wanted to hurt you, I think he avoided because he didn't want to hurt himself and also didn't want to hurt you. Whatever you decide, good luck.

 

[שירנושקה]

מאמי,

אולי פשוט אין לו זמן ובימים שהוא כן חוזר הביתה הוא מת מעייפות ויוצא לבלות עם חברים. ככה זה בצבא. קשה לשמור על קשר. אפילו בישראל. אז עוד קשר אמריקה-ישראל זה הרבה יותר קשה. ומה קרה עם החבר? בכל מקרה, אני מרגישה שעכשיו את מרגישה הרבה יותר טוב ושהמכתבים עשו לך טוב. ולא נורא, זה כיף לצפות למכתבים מחברים אפילו שלוקח לזה כמה חודשים להגיע...

 

[Lizusha]

Thanks hunn

yeah i know its hard and all, but still. when i call him and we talk, he doesnt tell me he misses me. But i know he does. and alot. How can u hang out with a person everyday for like 6-7 years. amd all of a sudden. Thats it and u have only the army to be with u... about the bf i dont remember0 was too long ago