My man left after a year

[meyple]

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He said that he doesn't feel good. Then ingnored me few for days & when I called he said that he is too busy & I should stop crying. I feel like my world is falling apart. I had a difficult year of member of family passed away, being on my own in a foreign country & more. Why does he leave when I need him the most? I feel so vulunerable, so fragile. I put much efforts, time & consideration in him, even delayed my own needs & it was not enough. I really wanted it to be the right thing that will end up in marriage. I just want after 10 years of having no one, to have the one & only, I have so much to give, love, warm, attention. I can't handle new bilnd dates & new search with no security, I've studied for 7 years, worked full time, I want some happiness. Can't I have it at the age of 28 ?

 

[גרא.]

meyple, i can understand and

empathies with your fillings.now,i will try and answer your question as good as i can but my english is not as good as yours. a lot of the time the men is afriad to commit and he leavs the minute he feels that the woman is expecting him to merry her. because he left you now feel mournful so you need some time to mourn. you have to do this as fast as you can in order to come back to your normal life. this is life - apparently it was not ment to be.you have no choise but to try again. good luck!

 

[nutmeg]

not only that -

but you also have to start placing "feeling good" in your hands not in the hands of others. You can learn to feel good AND be on your own as well. Feeling good doesn't necessarily involve another person.